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Book: The Monogamy Challenge

Our Vulnerability Makes Us Hypocrites

Posted on May 19, 2013 by

It is natural and normal for us to feel vulnerable. Our physical existence results in some real safety issues and preferences. Especially when we were young we needed to be cared for to survive. As a baby we feel safer … Continue reading →

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Expectations, Context and Acknowledgement

Posted on April 8, 2013 by

Does the history or context of a relationship effect what you need to feel acknowledged? For example, if you have a history of shared finances, are you then more likely to need to feel credited or acknowledged for your history … Continue reading →

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Empathy, Structural Integrity, and Transformation

Posted on February 22, 2013 by

Do we need empathy? Does empathy increase the strength or structural integrity of a relationship? I am continuing with my theme: What do we need? What do we need to feel connected and nurtured in relationships? How can we create … Continue reading →

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Is It Healthy to Need?

Posted on January 31, 2013 by

Learning to accept and embrace the validity of what we want or need has long been a central theme of my work. Becoming conscious of how our needs have been ignored, neglected and even shamed, has far reaching effects. Being … Continue reading →

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Radio Show Archives: Relationships, Transformation, Sexuality, Breathwork and more

Posted on July 16, 2012 by

Peter is doing a series of radio interviews with Dr. Pat. These shows are available live in Seattle and KKNW 1150 AM as well as numerous other stations nationally. You can also listen on-line or on archives. Here are some … Continue reading →

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Venus: What do We Need?

Posted on June 8, 2012 by

The Venus Transit was earlier this week but its impact may be felt strongly until Venus goes direct on 6/24. I like this topic because it resonates with some core themes that I have always tried to focus on with … Continue reading →

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Releasing Defense, Creating Peace

Posted on May 1, 2012 by

People often claim to be listening when what they are really doing is calculating a rebuttal. Although their rebuttal may be valid, responding to someone in a defensive way only escalates relationship conflicts. People want to be “heard” and to … Continue reading →

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